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What are the main strategies for Coping With a Quarter-Life Crisis?
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First, ask your students to look at the highlighted phrases in the stories and try to elicit the phrases' meanings by the context. Then check their meanings below.
Welp
an alternative pronunciation of well, is used at the beginning of a sentence to express resignation or disappointment
to fall out of touch
not communicating with each other
he deserves the world
people say "you deserve the world" as a way of expressing admiration, love, and support for someone
to reach out
to try to communicate with a person
to get over someone
to return to the usual state of health, happiness, etc.after the end of a relationship
to flood back
to return or come back in large numbers or with force, often in a sudden or overwhelming manner
to bang someone
to have sex with
wacky
psycho, crazy
BTDT
"been there done that" means "I have experienced this before and I'm not particularly interested in going through it again." Depending on how you use it, it can come across as blasé, dismissive or even rude
an offbeat film director
unusual and strange and therefore surprising or noticeable
chew on well after credits roll
means you have some food for thought after a movie ends
ideologically muddled
confusing and not clearly reasoned
cis man
person with gender identity that matches their sex assigned at birth
buzziest release of the film
very exciting, especially when you can hear about the film everywhere; everyone discusses this film
fruitful
producing good results; beneficial; profitable (opp. fruitless)
BACKLASH
a strong negative reaction by a large number of people, especially to a social or political development
The term quarter-life crisis refers to anxiety and self-doubt that some young adults experience during their mid-to-late 20s and early 30s.
a quarter-life crisis
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WHAT DO THESE FILMS HAVE IN COMMON?
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THE QUESTION
Poor Things, the newest movie from offbeat director Yorgos Lanthimos, offers us plenty to think about: nudity, the word "rakish", a burning desire for cropped Victorian jackets. In the film, we meet Bella Baxter (Emma Stone), a woman-child created by a controversial scientist (Willem Dafoe) who found her dead pregnant body in the Thames and implanted her baby’s brain into her adult head, jolting the resulting hybrid back to life. As weird as this premise sounds, it’s pretty transfixing once you get used to it, and the film follows Bella along a series of madcap adventures across the globe, many of which involve food, vigorous sex, socialism, or some combination of the three. Plenty of parallels have been drawn — to Frankenstein, to Freud, and even to Lanthimos’s other excellent collaborations with Stone. But to me, the most telling comparison is one that critics were quick to catch onto at the movie’s Venice Film Festival premiere: Poor Things is the much raunchier older sister of Greta Gerwig’s Barbie.

In the broadest strokes, Barbie and Poor Things — which, coincidentally or not, are also two of this year’s buzziest releases — follow the same plot: A naive woman conceived under some fantastical circumstances and controlled largely by men ventures into the real world, where she stumbles upon upsetting revelations about gender and social inequities. Eventually, she arrives at some sort of enlightened new headspace, having confronted the ugly truths of the world and developed her own sense of agency. Unlike some older biblical loss-of-innocence plots I can think of, Bella’s and Barbie’s journeys are celebrated — as unpleasant as tasting the forbidden fruit of these harsh realities may be, it’s also clearly the right choice.

Are these creationist stories successful? The jury is out. Barbie runs out of gender-theory road somewhere around hour two, coming to a sputtering close. Poor Things has received a heftier share of backlash, largely as a pseudo-feminist circus of exhibitionism penned and directed by two cis men. Both have been criticized as ideologically muddled. Personally, I didn’t feel satisfied by either movie’s take on female empowerment. But I also found them to be thoughtful, ridiculously funny allegories for modern womanhood that, at the very least, give us something to chew on well after the credits roll. The biggest thing they have going for them is deceptively simple: They’re just so fun to watch.

Stone’s and Robbie’s performances are also persistent reminders that, when we first meet them, neither is quite what we’d consider an adult woman: One is a doll, and the other is … well, she’s a baby. It’s surprisingly fruitful to explore female agency through characters like these, both of whom were created by men and take it upon themselves to define their existence on their own terms. What makes them want liberation when neither of them were created to be free? What makes us root for them to get it? For all the cathartic female rage dominating pop culture this year, why are these women — who feel anger, yes, but also awe, sadness, love, and joy — so compelling? Maybe it’s because, despite all this philosophical musing, their stories never feel weighty, and we get to experience the full spectrum of emotions along with them. We can have a little optimism as a treat. Because, for all its downsides, womanhood is not all pain and suffering.
Playing With Dolls
By Danielle Cohen, a writer for the Cut who covers pop-culture news and entertainment.
Remembering that this type of developmental crisis is a normal part of life can be helpful. What you are feeling isn’t unusual, and it can be a way to learn more about yourself. Psyhologists suggest that this self-exploration can be an essential way to shed light on your beliefs, values, and goals.

"Spending some time journaling or going through a list of values to help you figure out what is most important to you can really help here. Getting some clarity on these things will help you make decisions going forward that line up with your values and what is most important to you in your life".
“Friend from class matched with my then girlfriend (now ex). He informed me of the match and proceeded to set up a coffee date. Instead of him showing up to the date, I did. I had the pleasure of watching my girlfriend freak the f**k out.”
awkward date level 1000
What do you think of the plots of these two films? Are they similar?
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Why do you think both of these films are characterized by the buzziest releases?
Do you agree with the critics that both films are ideologically muddled?
What about the characters of these films? Do you associate yourself with one of them? Why (if yes)?
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